By Zachary Zane @zacharyzane_ November 13, 2015
There’s a personality type that often accompanies someone kinky. A personality type that is open, understanding, introspective, and daring, making them the perfect partner.
Here are 11 reasons you should date someone kinky that have nothing to do with sex.
1. Open to new experiences
Kinky people are open to making new connections, collecting experiences, and trying novel activities that push the boundaries.
2. Willing to trust others
Trust is the most necessary component of any BDSM-type encounter. Without trust, neither you nor he will ever be able to enjoy it.
3. Serious introspection
People who engage in kinky sex are thinkers. They’re self-aware. They evaluate why they do things. They question who they are and what they want to be. They critically challenge what society has deemed taboo and decide for themselves what’s right and wrong.
4. Want more out of life
Kinky people are tired of the monotony of everyday life. They’re tired with their 9-5 job. They’re tired with daily bullshit. They want something more out of life. They’re not satisfied with what they have and are willing to work hard to make their lives better.
5. Willing to be vulnerable
Kinky men and women are willing to be vulnerable. They’re willing to put themselves on the line and be exposed. Naked. Both literally and figuratively.
6. Can tolerate pain and humiliation
It takes a certain type of person to be able to handle both emotional and physical pain. A resilient person who is not only strong-willed, but also secure enough in himself to handle emotionally intense experiences.
7. Better understanding of relational power dynamics
Power dynamics manifest themselves in every relationship, whether we like it or not. Instead of sweeping them under the rug, kinky individuals acknowledge their existence, and use them to strengthen their relationship, as opposed to underhandedly manipulate their partner.
8. They’re adventurous.
Never a dull moment. They’re willing to take risks.
9. They love harder
Kinky folks are intense and that intensity carries over to the person they love.
10. They prioritize pleasure
Not in a purely hedonic way. They understand the complexities of pleasure, and how it can be a very fulfilling component to a well-rounded life.
11. They’re smarter
Because they’re more introspective, inquisitive, and challenging of society, kinky people tend to be more self-aware, and just plain smarter.
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