Thursday, November 15, 2018

Savage Love

From the November 6, 2018 edition of "Savage Love":

Q: I knew my little brother had an odd fascination with rubber that would likely become sexual. He would steal rubber gloves and hide them in his room, and there was a huge meltdown when our mother found a gas mask in his room when he was 12. My brother is in his 30s now and has a closet full of rubber "gear" that he dresses in pretty much exclusively. (When he's not at work, he's in rubber.) All of his friends are rubber fetishists. When he travels, it's only to fetish events where he can wear his rubber clothing publicly. He will date only other rubber fetishists, which seems to have severely limited his romantic prospects, and he posts photos of himself in rubber to his social media accounts. I read your column, and I understand that kinks aren't chosen and they can be incorporated into a person's sex life in a healthy way. But my brother's interest in rubber seems obsessive. Your thoughts? —Rubbered Up Baby Brother's Erotic Rut
 
A: If your brother was obsessed with surfing or snowboarding and built his life around chasing waves or powder—and would date only people who shared his passion—you wouldn't have written me. Same goes if he were obsessed with pro sports, as so many straight men are, or Broadway shows, as so many gay men are. The only "problem" here is that your brother's obsession makes his dick hard—and to be clear, RUBBER, the problem is yours, not his. An erotic obsession or passion is just as legitimate as a nonerotic one. And even if I thought your brother had a problem—and I do not—nothing I wrote here would result in him liking his rubber clothes, rubber buddies, or rubber fetish events any less.

Bravo, Dan Savage, bravo!

Wednesday, November 14, 2018

Some Clear Faces

Tight transparent rubber over a man's head....my weakness.


StruggleGummi

Layering it on....


Tuesday, November 13, 2018

In Defense of Chastity

For you that don't know, I'm a big fan of 'sessional chastity'....putting something some coverage to immobilize my cock while my ass becomes my primary sex organ. It's a very submissive thing to do, to give up your prime sense of masculine identity to focus on something else you have the potential to enjoy and become very proficient at. I think chastity is wonderful, though I have yet to find prolonged chastity a personal goal. Perhaps if I found the right Dom top to satisfy me enough to assume such a role.

To sum up the joys of chastity, here is a conversation on Tumblr a few weeks ago that really resonated with me, that I would like to share here. A very complete answer to that question. I love the entire response.

It was found on Confessions of a Hooded Bondage Bottom's Tumblr Feed:

anonymous asked:
I don’t understand the point of locking up. What does this do? Why is this attractive? Not trying to judge but trying to understand why the gusto for “caging” a dick.

the-silent-alpha answered:
Fair question.

Everyone can love chastity for different reasons, of course, just like any other kink. Here’s why I do :
Chastity takes away a boy’s ability to use his dick. He can’t jerk off, he can’t penetrate anything, he can’t stimulate it, he can’t get hard. To me (and to a lot of people) the dick is the ultimate symbol of masculinity. So when a boy doesn’t have access to it the feel of masculinity alters. He’s no longer in control of his dick, it is now controlled by the keyholder. The boy doesn’t get pleasure from it, the boy can’t get hard, depending on the device, the boy might not even be able to see it. It’s emasculating.
Not being able to cum makes the boy very horny. You’d be surprised what males are ready/want to do after not being able to cum for a few days/weeks. That makes him look for pleasure in other places. He wants to be touched anywhere, he wants to touch. In gay boys’ cases they think about dick non stop. They start playing with their ass to get some release so their hole becomes their sex organ. And because their hole is being stimulated and they get pleasure from it, it’s not just a hole anymore. It’s a cunt. They may not want to call it that, but that’s what it is in their head. So we now got a boy who’s hungry all the time, he trembles from the slightest touch and gets lots of pleasure from his new sex organ.
Chastity improves sex for the boy. Not only is he more sensitive, but without being able to cum he will always enjoy sex. If you bottom, you know that if you cum - it’s game over. Your top has to stop because you don’t enjoy being fucked anymore. That problem goes away with chastity. Boy is always ready and eager. That, of course, makes sex better for me. Not to mention the hands free orgasm the boy can achieve after enough time in chastity. Once a boy cums without stimulating his clit, he’s changed forever.
Chastity also never lets a boy forget who he is. You may be a bottom, you may be a sub. But you don’t think about that part of you when you’re at work or visiting you family or going to parties with your friends. The chastity device is always there, you can always feel it. Horny or not, sad or happy, alone or surrounded by people. You can always feel it, it’s a constant reminder that your manhood was taken away. It keeps you in your place, it never lets you forget that you get pleasure from getting fucked. Every time you need to use the bathroom you are faced with the reality of who you are : male but not a man. That changes a boy. His behavior becomes that of a sub even outside of the bedroom.
Chastity builds up a lot of frustration and tension. That’s why it’s also a great way to motivate the boy go to the gym or be more productive in general. I’ve had a boy with a barely average body transform into a beast after just 1 year of chastity. I’m no longer his keyholder, but he still keeps the cage. He doesn’t want it off, because it motivates him so much.

And most importantly, I love chastity because it sets clear roles. The boy is giving up his masculinity for me, he locks it up as a sign of surrender. My dick becomes the only dick in the room and he’s just holes. I’m his Man, he’s my bitch. Fucking a boy while watching his soft clit in his cage being ignored is just very, very hot.
I never liked when my bottoms touched themselves during sex. I thought the chastity devices looked a little weird at first. But now I love them. If I see one on a boy it makes me hard instantly. Because that means that he embraced his role as someone who belongs underneath Men. And I love being on top!

Fantasies by Rubber Boy

Wow, I can't even begin to describe how many buttons the two different versions of Dmiitri's latest works push in me. Gorgeous illustrations of a gorgeous scene.
Not-so-PG, but really PIG
Nice try, small 'p' pig haha


Monday, November 12, 2018

Tuesday, November 6, 2018

On the Horizon

Posters are out for Antwerp Pride and the Dutch Rubber Weekend in 2019!


Monday, November 5, 2018

Friday, November 2, 2018

Thursday, November 1, 2018

RoB Paris calendar

Je pensais que le Novembre c'est maintenant mon mois prefere!!!
Quel image!
Oh mon Serge.

Transparent Teasers

These suits and this gear with just the right subtle hints of transparency attached or layered over or under black latex really do tell a different story.....these looks (and especially the sheaths sheaths SHEATHS) drive me wild!
FUUUCCCKKK
   
SERIOUSLY, FUUUUUCCCCKKK!!!
Nothing weakens me more than a man that can add a layer of transparent rubber to his outfit.
A beautiful contrast