Jordan Witzel, weather guy for GlobalTV Calgary, is known for his hijinks (check out his reaction to Leslie Horton's artichoke dip or his Stampede Daisy Dukes or his interpretation of swinging).
Beside the fact I have had a bit of a crush on him for awhile, he does take the white spandex on mass media reality of his situation in stride.
Oh yeah, and if you have a chance to check out other GlobalTV personalities, one of the best is Vancouver's own Kristi Gordon and her paralyzing fear of bugs....monsters....and pretty much everything else. I'm not sure who hires these people in Western Canada, but they're freaking entertaining!
Thursday, October 31, 2019
Tuesday, October 29, 2019
Hot Rubber Fisting Team-Tag
#Fisting & #Punching #threesome in #rubber with @sirg___ and @BoySteini 🤤👊👊👊👊 #mask #gasmask Full video here: https://t.co/vPA3Ynribi pic.twitter.com/NDn1hIQe8F— FistRider (@FistRider_) October 28, 2019
Thursday, October 24, 2019
Tuesday, October 22, 2019
Mr West Coast Rubber 2019
I wish the best of luck to my title brother, Greg Brown, current Mr. West Coast Rubber 2019 as he begins his journey to competing in Mister International Rubber 23 in November. He is a great guy, and it would be amazing to bring the international title to the West Coast!
I won't be able to attend Chicago MIR23 as you know, however, I am seriously thinking of going to the next Mr. West Coast Rubber contest in March 2020, taking place in San Francisco. Looking forward to seeing Greg and so many other friends again!
Roberto Bolle 24/7
There should be a Roberto Bolle 24/7 channel. I could just watch him ALL DAY LONG.
Shiny Creature Returns
My old friend from the south is back at his exemplary captures of the rubber lifestyle WOOF
Orange Crush
I recall posting this on my Twitter but not here, so for posterity and cross-linking, here it is. Man these balloons are fucking fun!
Monday, October 21, 2019
Weekend Summary
I've been slowly getting my rubber mojo back over the past few weeks. Last week I had the opportunity to visit an old rubber buddy from Toronto who was in town for work for one day and managed to find himself in the Prime Minister Suite of the Fairmont Pacific Rim hotel for the evening.
I brought some rubber and toys over, after a glass of wine and a joint, we rubbered up and had some fun. In the meantime I got to tour around this massive 2500sf (or at least it seemed that big!) suite. It was by far the poshest hotel room I've ever been in! :)
This past weekend was a lot of fun for me. Sexy SemFolego and I played in rubber on Friday; I got fully rubbered up, got put in the sleepsack with electro on my cock and ball and in my ass. He sat on the rim chair above my rubbered head and I went to town for a couple hours. I think I've exposed SemFolego to something else he can hone his evil tendencies on....electrostim! He seemed to especially enjoy things when I was convulsing in pain....now he wants to have manual control over it. I am not sure if this is such a good idea or not! Haha
We ended the session with him jerking me off in the sleepsack while he cum showered over top of me. So hot!
Saturday was the October Vancouver Rubbermen Meet + Play. As you know, I have taken a bit of a back seat on the organizing front, so I kind of went as a participant/spectator this day which was nice. We had lots of fun and there was a really good turnout.
Mook and his new guy came over on Saturday evening; the four of us spent the night fucking each other in the sling and on the bench, it was a very very nice hot time.
Sunday morning, Ivyhole and I helped N33dfulthings move from his place in Burnaby to his new place downtown. I'm glad he's going to be a neighbor, I hope to see a lot more of him as a result. After a nap in the afternoon, Ivyhole came over after helping N33dfulthings set some things up, and we spent the remainder of the evening blowing each other's holes open. Perhaps it was a International Fisting Day precursor LOL
Today October 21 is International Fisting Day! Go out there and show your hole love to the ones you care about most.
Next weekend, Halloween!
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| A palatial living room overlooking Burrard Inlet |
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| After the sleepsack session.... |
We ended the session with him jerking me off in the sleepsack while he cum showered over top of me. So hot!
Saturday was the October Vancouver Rubbermen Meet + Play. As you know, I have taken a bit of a back seat on the organizing front, so I kind of went as a participant/spectator this day which was nice. We had lots of fun and there was a really good turnout.
Mook and his new guy came over on Saturday evening; the four of us spent the night fucking each other in the sling and on the bench, it was a very very nice hot time.
Sunday morning, Ivyhole and I helped N33dfulthings move from his place in Burnaby to his new place downtown. I'm glad he's going to be a neighbor, I hope to see a lot more of him as a result. After a nap in the afternoon, Ivyhole came over after helping N33dfulthings set some things up, and we spent the remainder of the evening blowing each other's holes open. Perhaps it was a International Fisting Day precursor LOL
Today October 21 is International Fisting Day! Go out there and show your hole love to the ones you care about most.
Next weekend, Halloween!
MIR 23: Underground and Weekend Summary
Thursday, October 17, 2019
Wednesday, October 9, 2019
Aren't You Glad You're A Fetishist?
To reiterate to all the lonely young, confused boys out there who can't define who they are; the ones that know they're 'different' but can't figure out what it is that makes them different; or the ones that think the things that turn them on are so sick and depraved that they are something that they must keep hidden or repressed, just be sure that you're different, but your differences also make you extra-special, and in some ways, a cut above the rest! Take advantage of the world we live in now, where there is information on all of the things that turn you on - fetishism can be healthy and positively influence many other aspects of your life, including enhancing your vanilla sex! :D
People Assume All Kinds of Wrong Stuff About Fetishists
Their sex lives aren't weird or sad.
By Justin Lehmiller, PhD
Oct 9 2017, 11:32am Vice
People who have sexual fetishes are turned on by the erotic use of inanimate, non-sexual objects. Most commonly, that means things like boots, shoes, or stockings, though people can develop fetishes for pretty much anything you can think of. If you've ever heard of Rule 34 of the Internet ("if it exists, there is porn for it"), well, this is why.
Once thought to be rare, psychologists now know that sexual fetishes are fairly common. For example, a recent study published in the Journal of Sex Research involving more than 1,000 Canadian adults found that nearly half (44.5 percent) expressed the desire to engage in fetishistic behavior, while just over one-quarter (26.3 percent) had actually done it at some point in the past.
Given how common fetish fantasies and behaviors are, sex scientists have begun to devote more attention to them, and this research is starting to challenge some of the most widely held assumptions about their nature.
For example, it has long been thought that, for people with fetishes, their sexual arousal hinges on the presence of a certain object during sexual activity. In other words, fetishists may find it hard to become—or stay—aroused and to enjoy sex unless their desired object is present.
However, a new set of studies published earlier this year in the International Journal of Sexual Health reveals that most fetishists say they still enjoy sex, even without their fetish object. Though they find fetish activities to be more sexually satisfying than non-fetish sex, they still think non-fetish sex is pretty damn good.
In other words, rather than thinking about fetishes as fixations in which a certain object becomes essential for sexual arousal and pleasure, fetishes should instead be thought of as preferences for specific objects that enhance sex. To be fair, there are some people who do become fixated on their fetish objects; however, they appear to be the exception rather than the rule.
Another common assumption about fetishes is that they largely involve solitary sexual activities, such as masturbating while looking at, sniffing, or touching one's desired object. In other words, fetishes have long been thought to center around the interaction between one person and their desired object, with other people not really being necessary to the equation.
However, new research published in the journal Psychology and Sexuality challenges this stereotype as well. In two studies of self-identified fetishists recruited online, researchers found that a majority of them said they had engaged in partnered fetish activities and, further, that most of them preferred to engage in such activities with a partner as opposed to doing it alone.
Fetishists appear to have pretty specific preferences for who their partner is, too. People with fetishes don't seek generic partners; instead, these folks seem to have pretty strong ideas about who they want to practice their desired activities with.
For example, just over 1 in 5 fetishists said their preferred partner is someone they are currently in a romantic relationship with, usually their wife or girlfriend, considering that most fetishists are men. In addition, most of them specified that their fetish partner must be of a certain gender, and many specified a certain age and/or level of attractiveness. The importance of having a partner with specific characteristics is highlighted in this quote from one of the participants: "The object and the wearer are NOT entirely disconnected: I mean that household gloves, worn by an ugly woman or girl will have no effect on me. So it's not just the glove by itself that is attractive to me, the wearer is equally important."
In other words, fetishistic desires can't necessarily be fulfilled by just anyone. There has to be just the right connection between the fetish object and one's sex partner.
It's also worth noting that, in both of the studies presented in the new Psychology & Sexuality paper, a majority of participants were currently in relationships, and most said that they had engaged in fetish activities with a committed partner before. This challenges yet another stereotype about fetishists: that their sexual desires make them incapable of establishing and/or maintaining romantic relationships.
Together, what all of these findings tell us is that much of what we think we know about fetishes is wrong. Having a fetish doesn't necessarily mean that you have an exclusive attraction to a specific object that prevents you from enjoying partnered activities and non-fetish sex or that makes relationships impossible. In fact, there seems to be an inherently interpersonal component to most fetishes and, most people who have them seem to enjoy a wide range of sexual activities. Bottom line: fetishists have more dynamic sex and love lives than most of us give them credit for.
Justin Lehmiller is the Director of the social psychology program at Ball State University, a faculty affiliate of The Kinsey Institute, and author of the blog Sex and Psychology. Follow him on Twitter @JustinLehmiller.
People Assume All Kinds of Wrong Stuff About Fetishists
Their sex lives aren't weird or sad.
By Justin Lehmiller, PhD
Oct 9 2017, 11:32am Vice
People who have sexual fetishes are turned on by the erotic use of inanimate, non-sexual objects. Most commonly, that means things like boots, shoes, or stockings, though people can develop fetishes for pretty much anything you can think of. If you've ever heard of Rule 34 of the Internet ("if it exists, there is porn for it"), well, this is why.
Once thought to be rare, psychologists now know that sexual fetishes are fairly common. For example, a recent study published in the Journal of Sex Research involving more than 1,000 Canadian adults found that nearly half (44.5 percent) expressed the desire to engage in fetishistic behavior, while just over one-quarter (26.3 percent) had actually done it at some point in the past.
Given how common fetish fantasies and behaviors are, sex scientists have begun to devote more attention to them, and this research is starting to challenge some of the most widely held assumptions about their nature.
For example, it has long been thought that, for people with fetishes, their sexual arousal hinges on the presence of a certain object during sexual activity. In other words, fetishists may find it hard to become—or stay—aroused and to enjoy sex unless their desired object is present.
However, a new set of studies published earlier this year in the International Journal of Sexual Health reveals that most fetishists say they still enjoy sex, even without their fetish object. Though they find fetish activities to be more sexually satisfying than non-fetish sex, they still think non-fetish sex is pretty damn good.
In other words, rather than thinking about fetishes as fixations in which a certain object becomes essential for sexual arousal and pleasure, fetishes should instead be thought of as preferences for specific objects that enhance sex. To be fair, there are some people who do become fixated on their fetish objects; however, they appear to be the exception rather than the rule.
Another common assumption about fetishes is that they largely involve solitary sexual activities, such as masturbating while looking at, sniffing, or touching one's desired object. In other words, fetishes have long been thought to center around the interaction between one person and their desired object, with other people not really being necessary to the equation.
However, new research published in the journal Psychology and Sexuality challenges this stereotype as well. In two studies of self-identified fetishists recruited online, researchers found that a majority of them said they had engaged in partnered fetish activities and, further, that most of them preferred to engage in such activities with a partner as opposed to doing it alone.
Fetishists appear to have pretty specific preferences for who their partner is, too. People with fetishes don't seek generic partners; instead, these folks seem to have pretty strong ideas about who they want to practice their desired activities with.
For example, just over 1 in 5 fetishists said their preferred partner is someone they are currently in a romantic relationship with, usually their wife or girlfriend, considering that most fetishists are men. In addition, most of them specified that their fetish partner must be of a certain gender, and many specified a certain age and/or level of attractiveness. The importance of having a partner with specific characteristics is highlighted in this quote from one of the participants: "The object and the wearer are NOT entirely disconnected: I mean that household gloves, worn by an ugly woman or girl will have no effect on me. So it's not just the glove by itself that is attractive to me, the wearer is equally important."
In other words, fetishistic desires can't necessarily be fulfilled by just anyone. There has to be just the right connection between the fetish object and one's sex partner.
It's also worth noting that, in both of the studies presented in the new Psychology & Sexuality paper, a majority of participants were currently in relationships, and most said that they had engaged in fetish activities with a committed partner before. This challenges yet another stereotype about fetishists: that their sexual desires make them incapable of establishing and/or maintaining romantic relationships.
Together, what all of these findings tell us is that much of what we think we know about fetishes is wrong. Having a fetish doesn't necessarily mean that you have an exclusive attraction to a specific object that prevents you from enjoying partnered activities and non-fetish sex or that makes relationships impossible. In fact, there seems to be an inherently interpersonal component to most fetishes and, most people who have them seem to enjoy a wide range of sexual activities. Bottom line: fetishists have more dynamic sex and love lives than most of us give them credit for.
Justin Lehmiller is the Director of the social psychology program at Ball State University, a faculty affiliate of The Kinsey Institute, and author of the blog Sex and Psychology. Follow him on Twitter @JustinLehmiller.
Friday, October 4, 2019
Is This Me?
11 Signs Your Personality Is So Intense That It’s Intimidating To Others
MARIA SMITH MAY 2019
A lot of things about us could be making it harder for people to relate to us or remain close. It could be the energy around you, it could also be a peculiar personality trait that rubs people the wrong way.
You might not actually have a bad personality, but it can be so intense that other people often feel the need to give you a wide berth.
That doesn’t necessarily mean you should change who you are. People like you are actually a very rare gem. You just need to understand that people will often misunderstand you.
For instance, some people just want a simple life, and they are willing to settle. However, the fact that you are intense makes them feel like you have no place for them in their world.
So, if connecting with other people seems to be an issue, it could be a sign that your personality is too intense and people find you intimidating.
Here are 11 things that prove that your personality might be intimidating to others.
1. You Are Not Very Patient With People Who Want To Waste Your Time.
You value relationships and companionships. But you also have other things you can spend your time on. So, if someone is just wasting your time, you will leave and make better use of your time.
2. You’re Far Too Open-Minded.
People are close-minded with the belief that they are just principled and morally upright. But you seem to embrace and explore new ideas as they come along. You will obviously not always agree with them, and you are not afraid to let them know about it either.
3. You Solve Problems, Rather Than Back Down.
When things get hard, you don’t feel sorry for the hand you have been dealt, you face the difficulty head-on. You work until things improve because you are a fighter.
4. You Like Habits.
You like schedules and consistency, and you create a life on solid predictability. Surprises are less than amusing for you.
5. You Do Things With Gusto.
You believe that you only live once, and therefore, you make an effort to live life to the fullest. Many people don’t do things in the same manner, and they will therefore not get why you do it. But take heart, there will be people who understand your passion, and you can hold on to them.
6. You’re Brutally Honest.
You place great value in honesty and don’t shy away from difficult conversations because you want the truth to get out. But not everyone is ready to handle the truth.
7. You Know What You Want.
You begin with an end in mind, and you make no compromises along the way. Goals have a top priority in your life. But you have to be careful here, a singular focus on the end might make you miss the beauty along the way.
8. You’re Inquisitive.
People think you are interrogating them, but you are trying to build a deeper and more meaningful connection. They fail to understand that you are not gathering intelligence on them so that you can use it against them later, you just want to know more about them.
9. Intimacy Does Not Scare You.
Many people confess they need intimacy in their lives, and then, when it comes, they back off. But that’s not who you are – deep connections with other people do not scare you at all.
10. You Can See People’s BS.
You can tell a lie from a mile off, and you know when someone is messing around with you. You hate lies with a passion, and you will not stay around when someone begins lying to you.
11. You Think Shallow Relationships Are A Waste Of Your Time.
Casual flings and one-night-stands hold no appeal for you. You want deep and meaningful connections. Anything less is just a waste of your time.
MARIA SMITH MAY 2019
A lot of things about us could be making it harder for people to relate to us or remain close. It could be the energy around you, it could also be a peculiar personality trait that rubs people the wrong way.
You might not actually have a bad personality, but it can be so intense that other people often feel the need to give you a wide berth.
That doesn’t necessarily mean you should change who you are. People like you are actually a very rare gem. You just need to understand that people will often misunderstand you.
For instance, some people just want a simple life, and they are willing to settle. However, the fact that you are intense makes them feel like you have no place for them in their world.
So, if connecting with other people seems to be an issue, it could be a sign that your personality is too intense and people find you intimidating.
Here are 11 things that prove that your personality might be intimidating to others.
1. You Are Not Very Patient With People Who Want To Waste Your Time.
You value relationships and companionships. But you also have other things you can spend your time on. So, if someone is just wasting your time, you will leave and make better use of your time.
2. You’re Far Too Open-Minded.
People are close-minded with the belief that they are just principled and morally upright. But you seem to embrace and explore new ideas as they come along. You will obviously not always agree with them, and you are not afraid to let them know about it either.
3. You Solve Problems, Rather Than Back Down.
When things get hard, you don’t feel sorry for the hand you have been dealt, you face the difficulty head-on. You work until things improve because you are a fighter.
4. You Like Habits.
You like schedules and consistency, and you create a life on solid predictability. Surprises are less than amusing for you.
5. You Do Things With Gusto.
You believe that you only live once, and therefore, you make an effort to live life to the fullest. Many people don’t do things in the same manner, and they will therefore not get why you do it. But take heart, there will be people who understand your passion, and you can hold on to them.
6. You’re Brutally Honest.
You place great value in honesty and don’t shy away from difficult conversations because you want the truth to get out. But not everyone is ready to handle the truth.
7. You Know What You Want.
You begin with an end in mind, and you make no compromises along the way. Goals have a top priority in your life. But you have to be careful here, a singular focus on the end might make you miss the beauty along the way.
8. You’re Inquisitive.
People think you are interrogating them, but you are trying to build a deeper and more meaningful connection. They fail to understand that you are not gathering intelligence on them so that you can use it against them later, you just want to know more about them.
9. Intimacy Does Not Scare You.
Many people confess they need intimacy in their lives, and then, when it comes, they back off. But that’s not who you are – deep connections with other people do not scare you at all.
10. You Can See People’s BS.
You can tell a lie from a mile off, and you know when someone is messing around with you. You hate lies with a passion, and you will not stay around when someone begins lying to you.
11. You Think Shallow Relationships Are A Waste Of Your Time.
Casual flings and one-night-stands hold no appeal for you. You want deep and meaningful connections. Anything less is just a waste of your time.
Thursday, October 3, 2019
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