For you that don't know, I'm a big fan of 'sessional chastity'....putting something some coverage to immobilize my cock while my ass becomes my primary sex organ. It's a very submissive thing to do, to give up your prime sense of masculine identity to focus on something else you have the potential to enjoy and become very proficient at. I think chastity is wonderful, though I have yet to find prolonged chastity a personal goal. Perhaps if I found the right Dom top to satisfy me enough to assume such a role.
To sum up the joys of chastity, here is a conversation on Tumblr a few weeks ago that really resonated with me, that I would like to share here. A very complete answer to that question. I love the entire response.
It was found on
Confessions of a Hooded Bondage Bottom's Tumblr Feed:
anonymous asked:
I
don’t understand the point of locking up. What does this do? Why is
this attractive? Not trying to judge but trying to understand why the
gusto for “caging” a dick.
Fair question.
Everyone can love chastity for different reasons, of course, just like any other kink. Here’s why I do :
Chastity takes away a boy’s ability to use his dick.
He can’t jerk off, he can’t penetrate anything, he can’t stimulate it,
he can’t get hard. To me (and to a lot of people) the dick is the
ultimate symbol of masculinity. So when a boy doesn’t have access to it
the feel of masculinity alters. He’s no longer in control of his dick,
it is now controlled by the keyholder. The boy doesn’t get pleasure from
it, the boy can’t get hard, depending on the device, the boy might not
even be able to see it. It’s emasculating.
Not being able to cum makes the boy very horny.
You’d be surprised what males are ready/want to do after not being able
to cum for a few days/weeks. That makes him look for pleasure in other
places. He wants to be touched anywhere, he wants to touch. In gay boys’
cases they think about dick non stop. They start playing with their ass
to get some release so their hole becomes their sex organ. And because
their hole is being stimulated and they get pleasure from it, it’s not
just a hole anymore. It’s a cunt. They may not want to call it that, but
that’s what it is in their head. So we now got a boy who’s hungry all
the time, he trembles from the slightest touch and gets lots of pleasure
from his new sex organ.
Chastity improves sex for the boy.
Not only is he more sensitive, but without being able to cum he will
always enjoy sex. If you bottom, you know that if you cum - it’s game
over. Your top has to stop because you don’t enjoy being fucked anymore.
That problem goes away with chastity. Boy is always ready and eager.
That, of course, makes sex better for me. Not to mention the hands free
orgasm the boy can achieve after enough time in chastity. Once a boy
cums without stimulating his clit, he’s changed forever.
Chastity also never lets a boy forget who he is.
You may be a bottom, you may be a sub. But you don’t think about that
part of you when you’re at work or visiting you family or going to
parties with your friends. The chastity device is always there, you can
always feel it. Horny or not, sad or happy, alone or surrounded by
people. You can always feel it, it’s a constant reminder that your
manhood was taken away. It keeps you in your place, it never lets you
forget that you get pleasure from getting fucked. Every time you need to
use the bathroom you are faced with the reality of who you are : male
but not a man. That changes a boy. His behavior becomes that of a sub
even outside of the bedroom.
Chastity builds up a lot of frustration and tension.
That’s why it’s also a great way to motivate the boy go to the gym or
be more productive in general. I’ve had a boy with a barely average body
transform into a beast after just 1 year of chastity. I’m no longer his
keyholder, but he still keeps the cage. He doesn’t want it off, because
it motivates him so much.
And most importantly, I love chastity because it sets clear roles.
The boy is giving up his masculinity for me, he locks it up as a sign
of surrender. My dick becomes the only dick in the room and he’s just
holes. I’m his Man, he’s my bitch. Fucking a boy while watching his soft
clit in his cage being ignored is just very, very hot.
I never
liked when my bottoms touched themselves during sex. I thought the
chastity devices looked a little weird at first. But now I love them. If
I see one on a boy it makes me hard instantly. Because that means that
he embraced his role as someone who belongs underneath Men. And I love
being on top!
