Hey rubbercanuck. I've been following your blog for a couple years now and love it but I need some advise. I recently found out my best friend is into rubber as much as I, but not into bondage. I already ordered him a custom tailored catsuit with toe sock, gloves and a mask. He also agreed to try out my vac cube he will be moving into my apartment so he can enjoy his fetish freely. We're both bi but not into each other (friendship between us is really strong, more like a brotherhood) what do you think I could get him as well to immerse him into the beautiful world of rubber fetishism?
Hi Alex, I think the fact he's already admitted he's into rubber is the first and biggest step. You may find your interests will differ from his; allow both of yourselves to explore what interests you but keep each other involved in what the other one is investigating and learning about. I find that even though someone says they're not into something, a comfortable exposure to something by someone with experience is more than enough to get a guy to think more about what he's missing and what he might want to explore more. Even though your friend says he isn't into bondage, does that mean he's just not into the submissive role or anything to do with bondage? Maybe he'll discover the wonders of being a bondage top....keep in mind there are so many different types of bondage, what he thinks bondage means in his head may not be something he likes but a different type of bondage may be!
It sounds like you're both relatively new to rubber fetishism...for god's sake, slow down and enjoy your evolution! There's no rush to experience everything all at once, there is so much to discover and you have lots of time to discover it. Some of it you may have a partner in crime to enjoy it with, other times you may have to find others or go it alone.
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Hey rubbercanuck. I've been following your blog for a couple years now and love it but I need some advise. I recently found out my best friend is into rubber as much as I, but not into bondage. I already ordered him a custom tailored catsuit with toe sock, gloves and a mask. He also agreed to try out my vac cube he will be moving into my apartment so he can enjoy his fetish freely. We're both bi but not into each other (friendship between us is really strong, more like a brotherhood) what do you think I could get him as well to immerse him into the beautiful world of rubber fetishism?
Hi Alex, I think the fact he's already admitted he's into rubber is the first and biggest step. You may find your interests will differ from his; allow both of yourselves to explore what interests you but keep each other involved in what the other one is investigating and learning about. I find that even though someone says they're not into something, a comfortable exposure to something by someone with experience is more than enough to get a guy to think more about what he's missing and what he might want to explore more. Even though your friend says he isn't into bondage, does that mean he's just not into the submissive role or anything to do with bondage? Maybe he'll discover the wonders of being a bondage top....keep in mind there are so many different types of bondage, what he thinks bondage means in his head may not be something he likes but a different type of bondage may be!
It sounds like you're both relatively new to rubber fetishism...for god's sake, slow down and enjoy your evolution! There's no rush to experience everything all at once, there is so much to discover and you have lots of time to discover it. Some of it you may have a partner in crime to enjoy it with, other times you may have to find others or go it alone.
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